傻呼呼的个人主义

很多人都说努力就是王道。我认为选择比努力更重要。选择一个凡事有商有量的伴侣，远比努力经营一段不和谐的婚姻来得容易。选择在高成长行业发展，远比呆在一个夕阳行业里拼搏来得划算。不管你多么努力，多么拼命扔一个硬币，你也无法让正面朝上的概率大于二分之一。其实，你越努力，概率就越接近于“二分之一“，一个你无法满足的结果。同样的道理，与其拼命努力地去改变一个不公平，不公正的国家，不如选择惬意地流浪他乡。你说我没骨气，我认。

Many people believe hard work is the key to success, but I believe making the right choice is far more important than working hard. Choosing a life partner who is open-minded and receptive to feedback is easier than working hard to manage a miserable relationship. Working in a fast growing enterprise is definitely more rewarding than striving in a sunset industry. No matter how hard you try to toss a fair coin, the chance of a head turning up can never be more than 50 percent. In fact, the harder you try by increasing the number of tosses, the chances of getting heads will be closer to 50 percent – an outcome that is not satisfactory to you. Similarly, instead of trying hard to change an unfair and unjust government, I rather rove in distant lands. You say I am spineless.  Yes, I am or rather I wish I was.